Today is day 2 after having the c-section done. I must say for 2 days after having a major surgery and my first time having surgery, I think I’m doing great. Getting out of bed sucks but other than that, I feel so good! I do have pain sometimes where my mfm made the first cut on my right side and getting up out of bed, laughing and laying back hurts me.
I never ever thought I would get through surgery without anxiety. I thought I was going to be crying and going through anxiety town the whole time.
It honestly was intimidating when the nurse told me when she was preparing me for surgery that I had to have 2 IVS instead of 1 because they rather be safe than sorry. With a previa you can bleed a little more and maybe need a transfusion and things can come up during surgery but my mfm told me December 14th she didn’t think anything was going to pop up.
Having the bigger people come to my room and talk to me before surgery was a very calming thing to meet them before hand.
The first people I met were the 3 nurses that were in the OR doing different things. They got me prepped and ready for surgery.
A lady came in so I could sign for my blood bags. That was when things got real for me.
The second person I met was my anesthesiologist. Right from the start she made me feel comfortable and confident with her. She explained everything she was going to be doing during surgery.
Then I met the OB resident who assisted my mfm during the whole thing. She was really nice.
Then my amazing mfm came in. She really put my mind at ease. She’s so laid back and chill that I just feel so relaxed because of her and how she is.
By this time, a nurse told me that it was time to go down to the OR. I got into the wheel chair and off we went. We got to these double doors, they told me it was time to say bye to my doula and husband till he comes back. I was crying at this point because I wished he could be there. We hugged and went through the doors.
I walked into the room, crying a little still. They said oh here’s miss america, crying is normal, do you have your wave down yet? I told her no, I’m not much of a waver.
So the anesthesiologist then started feeling around my spine for where the numbing shot would go, followed by the spinal.
She then put the stuff to sanitize my back on. That took 3 minutes to dry. After that 3 minutes, she asked if I was ready for the numbing part (I forgot what exactly that was called) I told her as ready as I would ever be.
She did the injection, I didn’t even feel it. Then she got ready to do the spinal. She did that and I felt nothing. I was then laid back on the table, going numb.
A few minutes passed. I could feel very funky like feeling. The anesthesiologist then said okay she did the tests and you passed because you didn’t react at all.
Before I knew it, my hubby was right next to me. Hes been so supportive through all 3 of the deliverys of our girls. He is my calm. I could never ask for a better man than him.
Not long after he got in there, my specialist said we were about to have a baby. I was so ready. They put the barrier down between where they had my top and bottom half was separated. My head was held up by the anesthesiologist.
I was crying. It was so amazing seeing our baby be born and crying. I was just so relieved it was almost over. Just to get through the rest of the surgery and everything would be okay.
Our girl was perfect. No issues at all. They cleaned her up, put a diaper on and we did skin to skin. That was one of my birth wishes. It was amazing.
After she was born, it seamed to go by slower. The anesthesiologist gave me something for the nausea that may or may not hit me once I was being closed. She said there was a certian layer that when they are closing, some women get really nauseous. It made me very dizzy. Like a scary dizzy. I just wanted that to end.
That soon ended. My mfm had finished closing me up, she told me her job was done but the assisting OB resident, was being very particular with closing the outside.
She told me surgery went well but She said they usually cut the bottom of the utrus because the top part is the only part that contracts but my placenta was on the bottom so they would have cut it, so they had to open my utrus from the top. If I were to get pregnant again, I would be at risk if I have any contractions that my scar would rip open and the placenta would rupture. She told me it wouldn’t be a good idea to get pregnant again. I could have lots of risks if I did.
I couldn’t be happier with the way it all worked out. Our baby girl is here and oh so perfect. She is the missing part of our little family.
I can’t wait to see how our older girls react to meeting their sister for the first time, I’ll be a hot crying mess but it is going to be bitter sweet❤
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